Dating advice for the single guy
Although we’re pretty lucky to have access to hundreds of singles on all of these dating apps out there, it’s important to take a break from online dating from time to time. Well, you need to give yourself a chance to meet someone organically.Not everyone wants their “how we met” story to be a “we both swiped right” story.
I needed to just keep going, and while I might be a bit down or need a short break, there was no choice but to get back into the race. Have “turnkey” date plans ready I had way too much going on my life to constantly think of amazing new dates all the time.
I was slowly becoming convinced that for whatever reason I was never going to get married.
Despite everything, I did meet an amazing woman and we recently got married. More times than I care to remember, I went out on first or second dates that I thought were terrific only to find out the woman thought otherwise.
On the other hand, there are plenty of men who marry right out of college. Some men will attempt to claim that they just haven’t met the “right one”, but the overwhelming majority will admit (if pressed) that there was at least one woman in their dating past that they could have married had they wanted to. Being a single guy is like going out on patrol in a combat zone every day not knowing what you will run into.
In the “good ole’ days”, most men (and women) in their early 20’s would be married with a child or two. Who knows what woman you’ll run into and want to “get to know” better?